But prayer is not just passive, we can’t just offer this to God, and assume God will take care of it all… we must both extract negative thoughts from our minds and replace them with good thoughts.
What’s with good thoughts? How do good thoughts work?
In college, my roommate and I would do this little exercise if we were having a really bad day. We would force each other to think of three things for which we were thankful.
It may sound easy, but not if you’re really focused on bad things. It’s hard but it works.
Can we go back to science for a bit?
There have been studies that show the affects of thoughts like shame, guilt, apathy, despair, fear, anger. These thoughts actually create weakness in us physically.
On the flip side – thoughts of love, peace, joy, acceptance, willingness make us stronger.
A caregiver chasing the clouds of chronic illness... although sometimes the clouds chase me.
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Monday, September 15, 2008
Community Organizers
While I admit that I was horribly entertained during Sarah Palin's acceptance speech a few weeks ago, I also admit that the next day I felt "dirty." Somewhere in my gut, I began to realize that all of those well executed jokes in her speech were really aimed at me and the things that I value most.
And those became more clear to me personally when I was invited to join a facebook group appropriately named, "Clergy are community organizers too." I smiled, and clicked join. The joy that I have found in supporting Obama for America stems from an absolute belief that government can be done differently. Government could be for the people by the people. Government could be changed, just like other horrible issues in our history have been changed... through grass roots efforts led by gifted, passionate community organizers.
Here's my personal truth though... I didn't always belief this way. During my Anti-racism training I remember saying aloud, "community organizing is something that was done in the 60's, it just sounds stupid now." I obvsiously didn't know what I was talking about. And the other folks in the room knew that I didn't know what I was talking about. They carefully, lovingly, clearly corrected me. They gave me examples from my worldview that simply wouldn't be if not for community organizers.
I would not have the right to vote.
I would not have the freedom to pursue a career.
I would not be a women clergy person... had there not been grass roots efforts led by gifted, passionate community organizers.
This post is my own effort to wipe off the dirt slung at me and others during Palin's speech and move on. This is my own commitment to be the type of gifted, passionate organizer within my community, in my corner of the globe that leads others to peace, justice, and kindness.
And those became more clear to me personally when I was invited to join a facebook group appropriately named, "Clergy are community organizers too." I smiled, and clicked join. The joy that I have found in supporting Obama for America stems from an absolute belief that government can be done differently. Government could be for the people by the people. Government could be changed, just like other horrible issues in our history have been changed... through grass roots efforts led by gifted, passionate community organizers.
Here's my personal truth though... I didn't always belief this way. During my Anti-racism training I remember saying aloud, "community organizing is something that was done in the 60's, it just sounds stupid now." I obvsiously didn't know what I was talking about. And the other folks in the room knew that I didn't know what I was talking about. They carefully, lovingly, clearly corrected me. They gave me examples from my worldview that simply wouldn't be if not for community organizers.
I would not have the right to vote.
I would not have the freedom to pursue a career.
I would not be a women clergy person... had there not been grass roots efforts led by gifted, passionate community organizers.
This post is my own effort to wipe off the dirt slung at me and others during Palin's speech and move on. This is my own commitment to be the type of gifted, passionate organizer within my community, in my corner of the globe that leads others to peace, justice, and kindness.
Friday, September 12, 2008
the reserved spaces in our hearts
Dan had mono his first year in college. I had been dating his dad for a couple months at this point and had only met him once. I took medication to him. And as I walked out of his dorm room, down the hall to the elevator, I thought to myself, "I'm completely unqualified to do this." I was in over my head. And yet by the time I got to my car, I could not deny that there was a space reserved for Dan in my heart. I could feel it, its door opened left center in my chest cavity.
The door opened again yesterday, the space had been redecorated. It belonged to his wife, Faith. She'd already moved in over a year ago, claimed our clan's name almost a year now. But I had forgotten the physical sense of this space until yesterday. Yesterday was a day for Faith. A day in the hospital, a day dreaming about grandchildren, a day praying for doctors, a day to rub Dan's back and swallow tears. It was a day to hold onto Faith.
And when I did... the door opened again in that same visceral sense that I had years ago. There was a space reserved for today. We had only to arrive with Faith.
The door opened again yesterday, the space had been redecorated. It belonged to his wife, Faith. She'd already moved in over a year ago, claimed our clan's name almost a year now. But I had forgotten the physical sense of this space until yesterday. Yesterday was a day for Faith. A day in the hospital, a day dreaming about grandchildren, a day praying for doctors, a day to rub Dan's back and swallow tears. It was a day to hold onto Faith.
And when I did... the door opened again in that same visceral sense that I had years ago. There was a space reserved for today. We had only to arrive with Faith.
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Recreating the Big Band
Scientists have been working diligently on a particle accelerator in hopes to recreate the big bang. Beware that during the experiment there is a slight possibility that we will be dragged into a black hole.
Really?
Check out article with picture
Really?
Check out article with picture
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